Add new with and match sequence test cases (#9128)

## Summary

Add new test cases for `with_item` and `match` sequence that demonstrate how long headers break. 

Removes one use of `optional_parentheses` in a position where it is know that the parentheses always need to be added.

## Test Plan

cargo test

crates/ruff_python_formatter/resources/test/fixtures/ruff/statement/match.py

@@ -578,3 +578,8 @@ match n % 3, n % 5:
         print("Buzz")
     case _:
         print(n)
+
+# Unparenthesized tuples
+match x:
+    case Child(aaaaaaaaa, bbbbbbbbbbbbbbb, cccccc), Doc(aaaaa, bbbbbbbbbb, ddddddddddddd):
+        pass

crates/ruff_python_formatter/resources/test/fixtures/ruff/statement/with.py

@@ -303,3 +303,7 @@ if True:
 if True:
     with anyio.CancelScope(shield=True) if get_running_loop() else contextlib.nullcontext():
         pass
+
+
+with Child(aaaaaaaaa, bbbbbbbbbbbbbbb, cccccc), Document(aaaaa, bbbbbbbbbb, ddddddddddddd):
+    pass