netfilter: nft_ct: allow to set ctnetlink event types of a connection

By default the kernel emits all ctnetlink events for a connection.
This allows to select the types of events to generate.

This can be used to e.g. only send DESTROY events but no NEW/UPDATE ones
and will work even if sysctl net.netfilter.nf_conntrack_events is set to 0.

This was already possible via iptables' CT target, but the nft version has
the advantage that it can also be used with already-established conntracks.

The added nf_ct_is_template() check isn't a bug fix as we only support
mark and labels (and unlike ecache the conntrack core doesn't copy those).

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>

include/uapi/linux/netfilter/nf_tables.h

@@ -901,6 +901,7 @@ enum nft_rt_attributes {
  * @NFT_CT_BYTES: conntrack bytes
  * @NFT_CT_AVGPKT: conntrack average bytes per packet
  * @NFT_CT_ZONE: conntrack zone
+ * @NFT_CT_EVENTMASK: ctnetlink events to be generated for this conntrack
  */
 enum nft_ct_keys {
 	NFT_CT_STATE,
@@ -921,6 +922,7 @@ enum nft_ct_keys {
 	NFT_CT_BYTES,
 	NFT_CT_AVGPKT,
 	NFT_CT_ZONE,
+	NFT_CT_EVENTMASK,
 };
 
 /**